- Daria Vast
Love Indecision: How It's Keeping Me Trapped in an Unhappy Relationship
Feeling anxious or depressed lately? It could be due to complex relationships, where people are playing certain roles. It's not necessarily the relationships themselves that are complex, but how we behave in them. Don't ignore your feelings and mental health - it's important to prioritize your well-being in any relationship.
People often find themselves stuck in complex relationships, where their feelings and actions become complicated. Here are some common scenarios:
Doubting feelings: One partner realizes that the relationship is withering away, but they doubt their feelings and give themselves a second chance. However, this only causes tension, and they struggle to end it due to their uncertainty.
Ignoring unhappiness: Both people understand that they're unhappy together, but they ignore it and wait for someone else to make the first move. By avoiding responsibility, they keep the relationship going.
Fear of being alone: A person is scared of being alone or not finding someone better, so they endure a difficult relationship that doesn't satisfy them. They feel trapped and can't find the courage to end it.
Suffering from guilt: A person understands that the relationship is toxic, but they suffer from guilt. The other person senses this and manipulates them, resulting in violence and abuse.
Financial dependence: A person is financially dependent on their partner and doesn't have the means to live independently. As a result, they have to endure a relationship that doesn't make them happy.
Indecisiveness: A person has met someone new, but they can't make a decision. They feel torn between their current relationship and the new person.
If you find yourself in any of these situations, it's essential to prioritize your well-being and make a decision that aligns with your values and needs. Remember, you deserve to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship.
