Why Being Able to Leave is Key in Relationships

If you can't slam the door and leave, you're already in a losing position. Women often wonder about what makes a successful relationship. In my practice, I often see anxious states caused by women being in a dependent position.

It's tactically crucial to remember that men value women who:

• Can leave tomorrow;

• Have an independent system of values;

• Can develop themselves without him;

• Attract other men;

It is important to remember that men value women who are independent and have their own system of values. Women who are capable of leaving, developing themselves, and attracting other men are more attractive to men.

Unfortunately, many men may try to devalue these women or prevent them from growing, using the guise of love and care. This only puts women in a more dependent position, making them vulnerable and more likely to suffer from anxiety and depression.

It's important to understand that having a great partner is wonderful, but being in a relationship where you can't leave or develop yourself is a losing position. It's important to cultivate your own independence and not let anyone take that away from you.