- Daria Vast
Women with high standards.
A women with high internal standards is very selective!
Whom does she go with, where, and why? A simple test: Would you let your daughter go there?
What and how much does she eat, drink, and smoke... Few people would agree to lie in a puddle or crawl on their knees in a meadow, and also lick an ashtray so that someone becomes more wealthy, but under the influence of goodwill, we smoke and drink, allowing someone to make money from it.
Setting Our Boundaries: What We Allow and What We Deny We all have different standards for what we find acceptable and what we don't. Some may not mind walking around with an outdated iPhone, but they may find it unacceptable to eat tomatoes that taste like plastic. On the other hand, eating high-quality tomatoes can be expensive. Similarly, buying quality boots can also be expensive, but it's considered normal to deal with health problems caused by wearing synthetic leather boots.
Low standards for self-respect can arise when we allow ourselves to be treated poorly or engage in harmful behaviors. For example, settling for a relationship with a married man, building a family under the control of his mother, or having children without considering one's financial stability are all signs of low self-respect.
It's no surprise that if we open ourselves up to any kind of negativity and welcome anyone into our lives, chaos will eventually ensue. It's important to remember that we only attract what we allow, and it's crucial to set boundaries and prioritize self-care. By taking care of ourselves, we set the standard for how we want to be treated, and we create a more harmonious life.
Having high internal standards is a positive quality that can lead to personal growth and fulfillment in life. It is important to note that it takes effort and self-reflection to cultivate and maintain high standards, but it is worth the investment for a fulfilling life.
